ABOUT ME
My approach
My motivation
ABOUT ME
My name is Shoshan Zahor, and I’m a 34-year-old mother of two, married, and currently living in Cambodia since 2021.
I’m a licensed social worker, specializing in working with families in crisis, with a degree earned in 2017. Over the years, I’ve deepened my expertise by studying parent consultancy within the attachment-based developmental approach of Dr. Gordon Neufeld.
I completed my training at the Neufeld Institute, focusing on trauma and resilience-building through this attachment-based model. I work with families worldwide, offering consultation and ongoing support on parenting challenges, relocation, and life crises.
My personal experience with relocating to Cambodia and my journey as a mother have given me a deep understanding of the unique challenges that come with major life transitions.
I integrate professional knowledge with practical tools and a genuine sense of empathy to meet the individual needs of every family I work with.
MY PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE
Throughout my career as a social worker, I've dedicated myself to supporting families during times of change and adjustment. I've come to understand how deeply family connections impact the well-being of every member, and how healthy communication between parents and children can serve as a powerful source of inner strength.
I offer personalized support grounded in the principles of Attachment Theory, providing practical tools to strengthen family bonds and better understand each child's needs.
I firmly believe that there is no “one-size-fits-all” solution for families—each family is unique. My approach focuses on understanding the specific challenges you're facing, so I can offer solutions tailored to your family's individual needs.
MY PERSONAL JOURNEY
After the birth of my daughter, alongside the immense excitement and learning, I also experienced a sense of loneliness in the world of motherhood. My instincts often clashed with what society and those around me considered the "right" way to parent. These feelings led to doubts about what was best for me, my daughter, and our family. In my search for answers, I began exploring different parenting approaches.
When I discovered Attachment Theory, everything I had been feeling was given a name and validation. I couldn’t believe there were resources that so accurately reflected my maternal instincts. The more I learned, the clearer things became, and the more curious I became to understand it all. It felt right—aligned with my instincts, never contradicting them.
Our move to Cambodia presented the perfect opportunity for me to make a professional shift, combining my love for families with a deeper understanding of Attachment Theory. After completing parent coaching training in this approach, I started supporting families, and the magic unfolded.
It’s incredible to witness parents rediscovering the balance that works for them and their children. The smallest changes often lead to profound, meaningful transformations.
WHAT I BELIVE IN
I believe that the parent-child bond is the foundation for a child's growth and resilience. Through my work with families, I've come to understand that parents are the most significant agents of change for their children. Family relationships have a direct impact on the well-being of all household members, and these relationships are nurtured through open, healthy communication, where each member can express their needs and desires.
My approach is rooted in a deep understanding of what motivates children—their emotional and physical needs—and finding solutions that are tailored not only to the child but also to the family's values and the parents' beliefs. The solutions I offer must be sustainable, integrated into the family’s lifestyle, and aligned with who they are.
In my work, I ask many questions to understand the unique dynamics of each family—the challenges their child is facing, their daily routine, the key figures in their child's life, and the relationships between them. Each answer helps me identify the root of the difficulty and develop a targeted, lasting response.
CHALLENGES OF FAMILIES IN RELOCATION
Moving to a new country is a powerful yet challenging experience for the entire family. It brings growth and renewal, but also significant challenges that can affect each family member. I remember the loneliness I felt when we moved to Cambodia—the distance from extended family created a sense of isolation, and sometimes there was no one to share my thoughts with. The pressure on parents to adapt to a new culture and language can be overwhelming and, at times, frustrating.
For children, adjusting to new friends and a different social environment presents its own challenges. Frequent absences and travels can disrupt routines and create a sense of instability. These challenges affect not only the children but also the parents. However, every challenge is an opportunity for growth and development—and I am here to support you through the process.
